How to put your blog/Website link on other's posts without spamming?

Spam Stinks!!!

            Nobody likes spams or spammers.First,when you comment on my blog if you are putting a link purposefully for me to visit,i will put that comment in spam folder and it will never see the lights again.So the biggest question you will have is how to increase web traffic to your site without being a spammer??..Well i have the answer.If you are telling me "can you please visit my blog and tell what is the problem with it's ads?or why nobody is clicking on them?.".Then i will surely visit and give you the solution.But if your comment is like "hey do you wanna make more money go to www.^%$&%$.com",then it's a SPAM.And it will never see the lights again.

        You might be wondering then how am i suppose to post my link on other's websites.There are two ways.

Anonymous comments you make on this blog will be directly put into spam folder 

1.  There is an option in most of the blogs where you can post a comment without signing in and only by providing your name and website URL.Post your Blog/Website name there.Almost all the site/Blog owners check the origin of the person who just commented on the blog.So they will visit your site for sure.
2. The second way is to post your link in your comment itself without irritating the blog/site/page owner and do it politely.For example "i read your new post,it's interesting but i disagree with the points in last paragraph.When you have time,please visit my page www.&%$&^.com and let me know your opinion about it.Thank you".I'm 100% sure the guy will visit your page.

    Another problem i found is people posting links like crazy as Anonymous.I would like to tell you nobody gives a f**k about your links if you don't say who you are and blogger.com automatically directs that comment to spam folder..So next time when you comment on my blog or any blog, put your name and please be a gentleman by following above rules